Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Third Trimester

Week 28

Seven months. SEVEN. MONTHS! I am so thrilled that we've made it this far! I know we still have months to go, but this is just so great! I have an absolute amazing technician at my OB's office. After the last month appointment, the tech said that if I scheduled a late appointment on the days she worked, she would stay a little later and get us in to see baby. So, of course, I got the last appointment and she pulled us in before we saw the doctor. Baby girl was head down with her butt above my belly button. :) We got to see part of her cute little face - the rest was covered by her hand - again! She is so very modest! first it was covering her privates by crossing her legs, and then covering her face with her ands for all other appointments. Silly goose! The tech measured her head and belly again, and everything was "normal." Her heart looked good too. She weight a little over two pounds. From now on, my appointments are every two weeks! WOW! 

Saturday (28w exactly), my family came down and helped prepare the house and nursery. Dad, Tyler, and my youngest sister helped prepare and paint the nursery. My mom and oldest younger sister cleaned up the baby items we already purchased (clorox, etc.) and helped me clean the main floor of the house. We did vents, reorganization, etc. My brother and future brother-in-law rearranged the basement and organized our media (Tyler's games and movies). After the nursery and laundry room were painted, the rooms were set up and it looks great! 

 Some of the hard workers taking a much needed nacho-break!

And the daddy-to-be putting the finishing touches on the nursery






Finally, the gray/silver stripe on the green walls. :) 





Week 29

March 8-14
This was our Spring Break. Truthfully, I didn't do much besides rest and work on baby shower things. Making a list of guests and filling out invitations. 


Week 30

March 15-21
Holy crap-o-la! Baby girl is all over the place! I can definitely feel her move all the time, and watch my belly shift as she readjusts. Sometimes it feels really weird, but it is something I would not replace with anything. <3 Oh, Monday night this week I experienced my first body-part-in-ribs pain. haha. It was both funny and painful. :) Tyler couldn't tell if he should console or laugh alongside me. 
Sunday I attended the Omaha Baby Fair. (It was the second-annual fair.) It was a little overwhelming, considering everyone there was either pregnant, or with a pregnant person. Many babies were there and SO many vendors. With so many women, I can't believe they didn't have the air conditioning on ... I think every mom-to-be was fanning herself! Oh, I went to this with a fellow colleague who is also pregnant. She is expecting her second bundle of joy in April and is a sign language interpreter for a few of our students at school. 

This week, on Tuesday, Tyler and I went to my 30 week appointment. I can't believe we are already into the every-other-week appointments! Before too long, I'll be going every week! I had the realization this week that if baby wanted to make an early appearance, she totally could at any moment. Yikes! I hope she doesn't come this early, but I can't stop her. :) At the appointment, I am up a few more pounds, but still nothing terribly outrageous. My blood pressure is still very normal and baby's heartbeat was 128 bpm. Seems kind of low, but doctor said it was just fine. 


Week 31

March 22-28
Monday  night this week I had a dream that when baby was born, she was a boy. I wonder if that is a sign 'she' is a 'he'. Doesn't matter to me! I can't get over just how much she is moving, and how much I feel AND see! My belly is actually shifting based on her movements and change of positions. It is so amazing! Thankfully her movements are so obvious that her daddy can feel her move almost every time he puts his hand on my belly. <3

Over the weekend Tyler and I went on an Urban Immersion trip with our Leadership class. Long story short, I'm glad that we both went in case baby was going to come early. I felt fine, besides the 5 hour one-way drive. Whew! Thankfully I was able to gauge how much I drank and didn't irritate the others too much with needing to stop. 


Week 32

March 29-April 4
This appointment was fast ... Dr. was on call with another patient who was in labor. We literally had time to listen to baby's heartbeat and then we were left with the nurse. Unfortunately we felt rushed, but if we were the family in labor, we would've wanted our doctor there when baby came. :) 

I'm so glad I've been going to the chiropractor every other week, I can't imagine only going once a month. Shoot, I could easily go once a week! 

The uncontrolled desire to sleep is taking up all of my non-work time. Ugh. I get home from school/work and fall asleep. I wake up to eat, then go to bed. (Or some combination of sleeping and eating.) I only get things done around the house on the weekends ... after I've slept in most of the morning. Tyler makes fun of me, but doesn't fight me on it ... smart man. :)


Week 33

April 5-11
This Saturday was our baby shower at our house. My sister and friend threw it for us. Tyler even invited the guys! Ladies stayed on the main floor and the gentlemen were in the basement. Here are a few pictures from that: 




Monday, two ladies from work threw us a baby shower. It was great to see/feel the love and support from colleagues! We got lots of sweet baby stuff here too!

Wednesday we went to Chalco and had maternity pictures taken by Iris Images. (Pam and I went to graduate school together!) She did a great job! Currently, I can't decide which pictures to keep and which ones I don't want. :( I guess that is a good problem to have. :)

Week 34

April 12-18
This week sort of stunk. I developed this really annoying feeling in my throat. Like something was lodged in there. I could breathe and swallow just find, but it made me nauseous. I even woke up a few times during the night because of the discomfort, or slight vomit in my mouth. Gross. It is also getting increasingly harder to sleep through the night. I typically get up 3-4 times each night just to go to the bathroom. Thankfully, I don't wake up Tyler. 

At our appointment, my nurse practitioner said it sounded like acid reflux. WHAT?! I've never had that problem before. I was annoyed. There was no pain in my chest, no heartburn, nothing. The 'discomfort' or acid reflux didn't happen only at night, most of the time it happened during the middle of the day. Anyway, she suggested if it was not tolerable or lasted too long that I should take some sort of over-the-counter acid reducer. (I haven't purchased any yet, I'm curious to see if it will go away.) Oh, and I didn't gain any weight from my last appointment ... but my belly grew. Weird. Doctor doesn't seem concerned, so I'm not either. 

I'm pretty sure baby is hiccuping. When I reclined in my recliner, I kept noticing this weird pulsating feeling near my butt. So weird! I figured baby was pulling on something to see what it was, or she was pinching something. Nope! I realized it was hiccups when they followed a distinct rhythm and then happened in my belly. :)


Week 35

April 19-25
Baby has had hiccups at least once a day - I don't always notice them right away, but it's super cute! I'm really starting to get eager to meet her. I know she needs to stay cookin' as long as possible, but I can't wait to hold her! My belly is definitely still growing, because it keeps getting tighter and tighter ... I can't tell if I'm still gaining weight or not. 

This week I only experienced the acid reflux once. I took one pill, and I've been fine since. Maybe it is based on what I eat or how baby is laying? I don't know. 

I'm pretty sure baby has her head down. I am up at least two times a night going to the bathroom, and that is after I wait as long as I can. Some nights I sleep REALLY well, others ... not so much. During the day, I'm hobbling to the bathroom every 20-30 minutes. Thankfully my students are well behaved that I can leave them if necessary. This marks the first week, since the very beginning of the pregnancy where my boobs hurt. The inside, not the nipple part. The pain/discomfort comes and goes though, so it's tolerable. 


Week 36

April 26-May 2
Tuesday marks our beginning of the weekly appointments. Crazy! Baby's heartbeat was 137 bpm. Doc said that it was normal for it to go down a little before she is born. I am 60% effaced and 1cm dilated. Baby's head is definitely down - doctor could feel it! SO WEIRD. Tyler shivered. hehe. (Not the best feeling in the world ... but still neat.) I had the Strep-B test today too. We'll see how that test turns out next week. I only have three more appointments scheduled ... and my nurse kept commenting about how I may not even get to all three. Wow! We are getting very close to being parents! 


Week 37

May 3-9
This whole week I had a ton of back labor. I think this baby is face-up and digging her head into my spine. :( 

- Monday hospital 1cm: At school I definitely had a contraction while going to the bathroom. I called the after-hours nurse (because my doctor's office doesn't open until 8:00am), of course she said to go to the hospital to make sure it wasn't the "real deal." Of course when we (hubby brought me) got there, they hooked me up to the external fetal monitor and saw that I was having contractions, but nothing strong enough to keep me there. I was instructed to "take it easy" and "rest." -Both of which are hard to do when you're a middle school teacher. This evening Tyler and I decided it would be best for me to finish out this week, and then stay home the last two weeks of school. Baby is due on May 24th, and that is the last day of school, but today was definitely a red flag for us. 
- Tuesday I had my normal appointment today and was 80% effaced and 3cm. I had my membranes swept twice now - it's damn painful, but I'm determined to have this baby as naturally as possible in the hospital. I'd rather not have Pitocin if I can avoid it. Hence the sweeping. 
- Wednesday lots of cramps/contractions in the evening. 
- Thursday morning started to lose mucus plug around 8am. That was creepy. Thank goodness one of the colleagues told me she had this happen to her otherwise I would've thought something horrible had happened! Apparently there isn't much talk about this happening, because it typically "falls out" so minimally that most women never notice. Well, I sure did! It continued for most of the day. I had a lot of contractions from 4:00p-7:00p. Drank a lot of water, ate some food, and kept trying to change what I was doing, to maintain a level of comfort. The contractions finally dwindled for good around 8pm. I woke up to a sharp pain at night around 1:30a. I laid in bed to see if it was a contraction or what happened ... I'm convinced baby just punched my cervix and went back to sleep. 
- Friday was my last day at work. So weird, but so exciting!


Week 38

May 12-16
Back labor was a major bitch this week. I couldn't sit still or stand or do ANYTHING for any amount of time. Each night I spent some time on the floor, on all fours, stretching my back and trying to move baby off of my spine. This works, but only for a little while. Sleep is damn near impossible because I'm so uncomfortable! I can't sleep on my back or stomach, which only leaves my sides. But it hurts my back too much because my hips are so wide, and ... blah blah blah. I could complain for hours. :) Bottom line: I sleep better in my recliner than my own bed, but I refuse to sleep in a chair when I can be next to my husband. 

- Monday I definitely kept myself busy on my first day of not-quite-yet-a-mother-yet-I'm-on-maternity-leave. I got the oil changed in the car, took Tessa to the vet and even met with a roofer. All in all, a pretty average day.
- Tuesday I had another appointment. I'm pretty sure I was at 90% and still 3 cm. *Annoying* I want this baby out and in my arms! The rest of today and Wednesday were pretty laid back at home. Lots of relaxing, napping, and cuddling with Tessa. There were a few contractions, but nothing I couldn't handle on my own. 
- Wednesday I had an eye appointment. I tried to get out of it, as "they" say that women's eyes change during and after pregnancy. Luckily, they didn't change my prescription and told me to wait to see how things went after baby. :)
- Thursday ... wow! I woke up this morning VERY sore - in my back. I took a nice, long, hot shower and tried to do my new routine: relax in my recliner with Tessa. Well, that didn't last very long today. I had very sharp back pains throughout the day and the only way I've been able to keep my mind off of them is by doing chores. It's probably "nesting," as some people call it, but it is definitely just a distraction! While I was working on laundry, I dropped to my knees because I had such a strong contraction. That worried me. I called my Aunt, who lives near me, and asked if she was home and if she would be on baby-duty. :) Luckily, she was home and sent me a text every hour to make sure things were going okay. I also kept in close touch with my mom. However, I started to have a few more contractions, I could talk through them, so I figured it wasn't a big deal...but they kept coming. I called my doctor and of course, she was at the downtown location; that location is 15.5 miles away from my house. In my misery, I drove there. The waiting room was under construction so I had to sit in one of the most uncomfortable chairs ever. When they called me back, I struggled to walk because the contractions were so painful, but momentarily made it hard to talk, but I could still talk through them. They immediately hooked me up to an external fetal monitor and left me in the room; alone. Of course I started crying; I was uncomfortable, by myself, and afraid of having this baby there. Ten minutes passed and the nurse came in to read the monitor's results - I was having strong enough contractions to be sent to the hospital. Great! The doctor and nurse left the room to call my husband to come get me, and left me alone. I was overheating and a giant ball of emotions. One nurse came in and offered me ice water. I took it, but laying down made it nearly impossible to consume anything. I didn't see any of the normal staff whom I had worked with for the past eight months and seeing new faces did NOT help the situation. Once hubby arrived, I cooled off, and the contractions dwindled to nearly nothing. That was frustrating. They wouldn't send me to the hospital to have the baby with no contractions! The said I was still 90% and 4cm. I drove myself home, with Tyler following me closely. 

**To read Friday's entry, you'll have to read the "Baby Time!" post. :)
























Second Trimester (second half)

Week 21

This week started on the Saturday following our first week back from Christmas Break (January 11th). I haven't felt a whole lot of movement this week ... maybe that's because I was back to work and not really just sitting and relaxing. Generally, I seem to feel baby when I sit in my recliner, or lay in bed at night, before falling asleep. I'm not too worried about not feeling it yet, as the doctor said with the placenta on top of baby, I probably wouldn't feel much until week 24-25. 

There is no denying that I'm expecting though! The only pants I can wear to work are maternity pants ... all three pair I own. At home, I wear sweat or track pants. Yeah, I'm real lady-like. :) Hey, as long as my husband still finds me attractive, then I'll remain comfortable! Tonight, Tuesday, we're going back to the Big Wheels to Butterflies maternity store tonight. That is where I purchased two of my three pairs of maternity pants. I'm not against buying slightly used clothes for these few months ahead of me, as long as they fit. My problem, no matter what, is always finding pants that are long enough. I even wear flat shoes, and still struggle to find long pants ... without paying an arm and a leg that is. 

I was very ill Wednesday evening, and had severe abdominal pain in the lower half of my stomach. Ugh. Friday I decided to call my doctor to see if we could get in and listen to the heartbeat. (I know we've done this a few times before, but she DID say that I could come in whenever I wanted! Plus, these appointments don't cost anything.) The heartbeat was very strong and held steady at 140bpm. Just as you could really hear the pattern of the heartbeat, the sound faded away ... baby moved! hehe. Doc found it again and it sounded great! She clarified that my placenta is between baby and my belly - so I won't feel much, or anything, until baby is much bigger. However, she also said that I may feel baby at the top and bottom of my belly. :) 



Week 22

Saturday was day one for this week. I spend the WHOLE day at a swim meet for my little brother. This was the first public appearance where women, who are complete strangers to me, congratulated me, and even offered to let me cut in front of them in the bathroom line. :) (For the record, I didn't ... but I may later on!) 

Sunday morning, as I laid in bed on my left side, I felt a little kick on the upper left-hand side of my belly. It was so gentle, and yet so noticeable at the same time. <3 I laid still and felt it a second time! Considering I'm not expecting much for a few more weeks, that was such a heartwarming way to really wake up. :) 

Monday night, Tyler read baby and I a chapter from a book (he plans to read a little every night to help baby get used to his voice). As he read, I laid on my back, still and quiet, just listening. As he read, I could feel baby move! A few kicks/hits were strong enough I thought he might feel. I had him put his hand on my belly, and within a paragraph of his book there was a kick! That he could feel! It was AWESOME! I can definitely feel more than he can, but that one little kick was just enough for him to have a little taste of what I get to feel most of the day. :) <3 this baby!

Tuesday he didn't read. I was bummed. I didn't feel anything that day. He read again Wednesday and baby kicked him again. :) Slowly, but surely as the week progressed, I could feel a little more movement. It is great! 


Week 23

I. Am. Hungry. All. The. Time. (Well, until it's time for dinner.) What gives? I can eat all day long, but when it comes to dinner, probably my biggest meal of the day, I'm not hungry. Lately, I've been forcing myself to eat so that I don't wake up being so hungry I feel sick. Is this common? After I ate breakfast on Sunday, baby was moving - I think that means baby is happy. :)

A wonderful friend lent me her maternity clothes, and I couldn't be more thankful! They fit and they're comfy! Hooray! THANK YOU! 

Tuesday the belly-collecting began. Everything I leaned near wound up on my shirt, and every time I bent over, I couldn't bend over as far. I know this will get worse ... I'll keep you posted on that. :) 

Time is slipping away from me. I'm doing better about remember the things I need to get done, but there just isn't enough time to get them all accomplished!


Week 24

This week, baby is moving around like crazy! Not only can I feel it move inside, but you can watch my belly move! This Saturday (24w1d), was the first time I could see my belly move when baby moved. It was breathtaking. <3 As the week progressed, I could feel and see more movement. I love walking around a classroom helping students and get a little kick or punch in the side. :) I *might* get annoyed by this later, but for now, it is very reassuring and awesome!

This week also marked my six month check-up. (Only one more month and then we start bi-weekly, and weekly appointments. Crazy!) This was the first appointment Tyler could not attend. :( My sister was going to accompany me, but the weather was so crappy, she wasn't going to make it in time. As a matter of fact, I gave myself 45 minutes to get to my appointment, and only had two minutes to spare! 

The ultrasound technician was able to confirm baby's sex, and said baby was looking great! Everything about the heart, belly, spine, kidneys, bladder, etc. looked spot on. Music to this future-mother's ears. :) 

Our plan is to tell our parents (and siblings) near the beginning of next week, and to announce to the world what we're having later in the week. We couldn't be more excited! 

Week 25

IT'S A GIRL!! 

Early this week, we told our parents and siblings what baby's sex is. They were all surprised! Most were excited. I think they'll be more excited once baby is actually here and they can hold it. The way we told my parents is by having them close their eyes and hold our their hands. I put a onesie between their fingers and let them see if it was pink or blue. :) To reveal baby's gender to our colleagues at work, Tyler wanted to make cake pops. Although we've never attempted this before, we were mildly successful! They went over really well and everyone was excited for us! Below are a few pictures of this week's events. :)


Oh! We also purchased some of our first cloth diapers this week! Another mom who lives out this way had 24 brand new diapers she was selling at a loss for her. How sweet! She and her husband changed their mind on cloth diapering after having to use disposables for a few months after their baby was born. So, they just sat around and collected dust. It was awfully sweet of her to sell them to me at a discount. Here is a picture of them:


While Tyler and I aren't fans of pink, we know that having a girl makes it inevitable that pink will be in our home. However, the nursery is green and silver and there will be lots of yellow, purple, green, blue, etc. clothes to alternate in between pink clothes we get from family and friends. :) 

Week 26

We finally attended our Cloth Diapering 101 class this week at Baby Junk. We paid and registered for this back in November. Yikes. That month we had an awful snow storm that caused the roads to be pretty bad, so we went straight home. The following two months we were busy the nights they held the class, so we finally attended in February. Thank goodness there are some great staff members there who allowed us to attend even though we were a few months late. :) At the class, I think Tyler learned some things, even though he has been listening to me talk cloth diapering for months now. I'm not sure I really learned anything from the class, but that isn't their fault. I've done so much reading, research, and brain-picking of other cloth diapering moms that I definitely knew more than anyone else in that class. Oh well - with the $15 registration fee, we got a $15 gift card to spend there! We decided to purchase a prepped pre-fold and a Thirsties cover. While the hubs is very excited to use our new pocket diapers once baby is big enough, he decided he/we should use pre-folds and covers for baby while she is a newborn. He tried to diaper a doll they had in the store and struggled a little, but because he is motivated to cloth diaper, I have no doubt that he will get better the more he has to change diapers. :) 


Week 27

I can feel baby move all the time! It is amazing! Tyler finally felt her again for the second time. <3 
This week we were VERY busy with school things ... sorry. :(